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There are a lot of pressures on parents, on top of the more understandable issues when someone has a child (nutrition, health, and safety), many parents who work are finding themselves wondering if they have failed their children because they cannot always be there. While it used to be one parent could stay home while the other worked, those days are long gone and aren’t coming back. While yes, many still count themselves lucky to even be employed right now and have the ability to put food on the table, and get their kids what they need- there is still a lot of guilt when a parent (or both) have to work and put their kids in daycare, or under someone else’s supervision.

It is a tough decision, and worrying about it is normal. With so many choices out there, it’s natural to worry about if you have made the right one or not. Worrying in general can easily make things seem worse, and as a parent you obviously want what is best for your children and your family.

Putting food on the table is important, and for those who are worried that their care choices may harm their child- don’t. Many studies are showing that kids in daycare come out fine,and the experience itself can help children to reach important social milestones sooner than peers who may not have has as much contact with those in the same age range as themselves. It can be hard, but it won’t ‘damage’ your child. Kids can be a lot more resilient than many realize, and daycare won’t harm your child.

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Getting first time school goers ready for back to school is a big step. When a child is starting out their formal education, it can lead to a lot of worries (both from the parents and their child). Finding ways to reassure children can go a long way to starting their education off on the right foot.

• Many school systems have a special day where children (and their parents) can take a ride on the school bus. For first time students, the bus can be both exciting and a little bit scary. Riding on it beforehand can go a long way to easing some of those fears.
• Often, schools will have an orientation to help children and parents learn more about the school and let children see it and get used to it. If they don’t call and find out if they will let parents and children visit beforehand to help familiarize the surroundings.
• Parents can help get their child excited by talking all about the exciting things they will be learning and doing in school.
• Start children off on the school schedule they will have for around two weeks before school starts. This can go a long way to help a child’s body get used to the new schedule.

Starting school is an exciting time, and getting kids ready beforehand can go a long way for success. Working to assure any fears and easing concerns can go a very long way into early success in school

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A lot of time and talk has been given to the over diagnosis of children with medical and mental issues.  Some have gone so far as to call a lot of these diagnosis the ‘fashionable’ ones to have.  They range from ADHD to Autism Spectrum disorders.

When however, there is something wrong it can lead to many questions, too few answers and a lot of problems beyond what may be ailing your child.  It can be stressful, especially when it feels like there is nowhere to turn.

No parent wants to wonder and worry that something may be wrong with their child, but unfortunately sometimes things just aren’t quite right, and there may be a growing suspicion to a parent that sometimes they just can’t put their finger on.  It may be just ‘odd’ behavior noticed, or maybe some speaking issues, regardless- you know something simply isn’t correct.

The best thing to do in those situations is talk to your pediatrician.  Don’t worry that he will think you are over reacting, most pediatricians are both use to worried parents and know what to look for when there’s more to something than worry.  However, if your child’s pediatrician isn’t listening to your concern, don’t be afraid of getting a second opinion.  Either talking to a child psychiatrist in your area, or another pediatrician.

While it may indeed be nothing to worry about, if something is wrong early intervention is the key. More and more studies are being done that show that the earlier something is found, the more chance your child has of leading a normal and happy life.

There shouldn’t be shame involved if something is out of place, most mental diagnosis are something that has become more and more public.  While it is true that a few years back, problems were shoved aside, and nary a word was spoken about them- those days thankfully are gone. 

Consider joining a support group either locally or online, just talking to those who have ‘been there’ can help out tremendously. 

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It’s a sad take on society at large when stories like this happen as often as they do.

Maricopa County sheriff’s deputies arrested Tanya Nareau, 33, of Mesa, Ariz. on Tuesday after receiving a tip.

Deputies say they spoke with a family friend who had the child and confirmed Nareau gave the girl to him in exchange for a gun.

Deputies say Nareau felt the friend would do a better job raising the child than she would.

Nareau has been charged with the unlawful sale of a child and solicitation to possess a weapon by a prohibited person, authorities said.

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With the Balloon Parents of the world out there doing (well, granted- fake) hugely dramatic things for 15 minutes of fame, others are doing incredibly horrible things for even worse reasons.  While the little girl in question (she’s 2 according to some reports, the same age as my own daughter) is physically fine, there’s no real knowing what the future has in store for her mentally.

Due to a prior issue with law enforcement, Nareau wasn’t allowed to have a weapon in her position,and she is presently in jail.

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It seems like the only news is bad news lately when it comes to anything out of Hollywood.  Supermodel Heidi Klum however shows that star power can bring a little joy to her lucky kids as well.  She was snapped recently during an ice skating session with her children in Aspen. 

While there is still a lot of negative news in the press about the certain superstar parents, it’s nice and refreshing to see some stars just being happy with their families. 

Yet, should the public at large even be privy to these private family moments?

It’s far to easy to find out a bit about anything about any celebrity (and their kids for that matter). 

While the famous parent may have signed up for life in the public eye, their children didn’t.

Some studies that have been done have even shown that having a famous parent can impact a child for the negative.  Especially if that parent and child compete for the spotlight.

An article from the FoxNews website really hits the topic spot on when it says:

And there can be issues whether the child becomes more or less successful than the famous parent, said Beverly Hills-based Dr. Carole Lieberman, who counsels a number of children of the rich and famous. She said celebrity parents can sabotage their offspring, consciously or not.

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